Day Forty-two

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Picture day! I realized that I haven't posted any pictures to go along with these posts. So here are some pictures (not all) to illustrate how things have been going.

Huge Tumor
Tumor
Checked into the hospital waiting for the DR
Last night before surgery we cried a lot but Ryan was able to snuggle with me for a little bit
Heading to surgery
Just out of surgery
Incision
he was so swollen and draining fluid day after surgery
Swollen and miserable 2nd day after surgery
Ready to get out of the hospital day 3
   
Swelling is going down and pain set in
Finally tried out the recliner but needed the elephant for head support
Trying out this new hat to cover the scar
We went to St. George for a weekend at dance competitions
First day of Radiation treatment

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